I know everyone has issues, but I love when a man I want to date doesn’t rattle off all of his issues to me from the minute we meet. Doing so has become my sign that things will not work out (short or long term) between us. More often than not they use those issues as an excuse for why they have relationship/intimacy/commitment issues (with me, ha). I, in turn, have divulged too much information about myself way too soon. I used to think this was a sign of trust, bonding and we-are-going-to-be-togetherness. It’s really just a sign that they need a friend or a psychiatrist. Get a fucking clue, K.